Your Future Self
“Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” - Oscar Wilde
Life's too short for that. You have one precious life.
Aria had grown up as sensitive child raised by a self-absorbed mother. This created some unhealthy relationship patterns which she played out later in her life. As an adult, she was afraid to tell her partner what she wanted because she feared losing the relationship. That's people pleasing, but relationships thrive on intimacy, on sharing who we are.
By working with a mentor, Aria realized it was much better to risk losing the relationship, by telling her partner what she wanted. If he was opposed to her idea, maybe they could negotiate a compromise, but nothing would happen if she stayed silent. He couldn’t know what she desired unless she risked sharing that.
As she undertook these small steps (which felt HUGE to her), she began to experience more self esteem. Why? She had begun caring for herself in more loving way.
What does your happier future self require you to do to have what you envision?
First write about what you want for yourself, and put it into a timeline. Then break it down into doable steps. Next, create accountability with yourself to make sure you stay on track. Staying on track is very important when creating something new.
I’m happy to help guide you though the process so you’ll have tangible results in a fairly short amount of time.
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