I Don't Believe in Soulmates

I do believe in bliss

Jun 15, 2021

I don't believe in soulmates or in seeking one to complete you or in knowing someone is perfect for you within seconds of meeting, but I do believe rich forms of love are available to you throughout your life.

I believe in:

love, in loving relationships where you are your genuine self, in investing in yourself so you are ready to slay in the relationship realm.

I love in bigger ways than I was ever capable of before. I was scared before to love boldly. But I'm fearless now. And I don't give a f*ck who knows that. It's a strength to love openly.

I believe in investing in growth because I've done that for myself for years: therapy, retreats, workshops. Any coach worth working with has a coach. My favorite therapist had a favorite mentor he worked with. We all need support.

There is boldness and bravery in seeking support. This is why I see women who take themselves on as warriors. You want more. And you aren't patiently waiting for it. You're going for it.

Until we're conscious of what we're doing and why we're doing it, we keep re-working the same issues, attempting to shift them.

For ex., you may partner with a guy who is not a good fit for you, but persist in that relationship anyway because you think it'll take too much effort to find someone great. That's a paradox. And it’s run by fear, not possibility.

These patterns are fixable.

I've examined patterns for y e a r s, learned how to interrupt them, and guide warriors in a more fulfilling direction.

It's pretty easy, but you have to want more for yourself, you don't want to wait any longer, and you're committed. Them's the rules. :)

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