Give yourself permission to date THREE men at the same time! Yes, do that.
Why?Â
You won't commit to one too soon - which you might do if you're dating one at a time #relax
You'll have more fun :) Fun lights women up #fun
You get to compare & contrast, to see who's values are aligned with yours, because your values are as important as who you’re attracted to #truth
You won't be gaga in the face of someone you think is hot, because you have 2 others you're seeing #options
If you feel guilty about doing this, why is this difficult? You're not married or in a committed relationship, so no need to act like you are when you barely know the guy(s). The only person you should be caring for is you. Trust me, they are taking care of themselves. #explore
Go at your pace, not theirs, aligned with the kind of relationship you're seeking #slow&steady
It's your valuable time. If you invest too soon in 1 person and get exclusive, then find you're incompatible 6+ months down the road, the dissolution of that may be painful, so you decide to sit out from dating for 2 or 3 months. That's almost a year of your life sidelined because you wouldn’t take your time #lifestooshort
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