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Broken Men

On being attracted to them.

Allison Evans
Aug 16, 2023
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As a woman seeking a loving relationship, do you find yourself attracted to broken men?

By broken I mean who you think you can fix? That's typically going to be problematic.

If you're dating someone, it's very important to accept the man as he is - if you find you want to change him

or help him to become someone you believe he's capable of becoming,

a better, future version of himself,

you're not accepting him as he is. Don't date his potential. Choose him "as is" or keep looking for a better fit.

If no one ever measures up for you, that is something to look at within yourself.

We're all human, all flawed.


You want a partner who accepts you, that I’m certain of.

For you to find a loving relationship

it's important for you to accept him, too.

Acceptance is flexible, realistic, nuanced and warm. ♥️


If you think you’re getting in your own way, I can help you get out of your way.

Schedule a 30 min Zoom with me: https://calendly.com/allison_evans/consult-call

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