A Relationship is Like a Shark 🦈
“A relationship, I think, is like a shark. You know? It has to constantly move forward or it dies." - Woody Allen in his film, “Annie Hall.”
Good relationship strategy involves open curiosity. Curiosity stems from an open inquiry, taking "how does this affect me" out of the equation. It's not about you, boo.
"Tell me more" is more enlivening than, "why are you doing that?" One is interested and the other is judgmental - and I guarantee you, neither is lost on the recipient. Good enough isn't good enough, if your goal is to be partnered in a relationship that lights you up.
If you want to become platonic roommates with your partner, you can skip this step and coast.
But, if you desire a robust connection that is alive, that wakes up your senses, try removing some of the guarded bricks surrounding your heart. If you don't know where to find them, next time you get angry - look there. That's a rich place to begin your own inquiry.
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